Turning 3 in Japan

Maybe it’s their chubby faces or the way their mothers dress them in panda outfits and Totoro costumes. Whatever the reason, I’ve always thought that Japanese children are the most adorable, precious little beings.

There are many festivals in Japan to celebrate children and pray for their happiness and wellbeing as they grow up. One of the first traditional celebrations a Japanese person will experience takes place when they are just 3 years old. ‘Shichi-go-san’ is a festival where 7 year old girls, 5 year old boys and 3 year old girls and boys dress up in kimonos – making them even cuter than they already are – and visit a shrine.

At the end of November, I had the privilege of joining a friend’s 3-year-old niece, Amane, and her family as they celebrated the 753 Festival at a local shrine in Tokyo.

We were ushered into the offering hall by the priest at the appointed time, and sat down in front of the altar. In the front row, was Amane, her mother, father, grandmother and baby brother. In the back row, was me, her older brother and aunt. It was an intimate affair! The ceremony began with the priest welcoming us and waving a white paper streamer to cleanse the offerings and bless us. We bowed a few times and clapped our hands, the priest did some chanting, and Amane and her dad placed branches wrapped in white paper on the altar. The priest gave Omiki (ceremonial sake) to the parents, then we all stood and each received a small dish of sake. The ceremony concluded with Amane being given her Chitose-ame, a long envelope that contains candy. It was fairly short – probably long enough for children that young – and was quite formal. It was fascinating for me since it was the first time I’d actually entered a shrine hall and witnessed a 753 ceremony. And of course it was particularly special since I know the family.

We had a lot of fun taking photos after the ceremony. Amane has such a playful, cheerful nature and was constantly running around! Her big brother is the best brother and I loved watching them interact. Such a beautiful, close-knit family.

The kimono Amane was wearing had been passed down through the generations. My friend had also worn it at her 753 ceremony, and we compared the two photos side by side – even though she is my friend’s niece, the resemblance was uncanny!

At the top of the kimono’s sleeve is the family’s crest, while at the bottom of the sleeves and kimono are pictures of temari, colourful, embroidered balls that symbolize friendship and loyalty, and are given to children by their parents for good luck. In Amane’s hair were two hair pieces made from kimono fabric in Kyoto. The strawberries match the hifu vest and the slippers. For many 3-year-olds, this is the very first time they wear a kimono and have to walk in these slippery sandals. Amane did a good job of walking in them, but I have seen a few kids tripping and falling over in the past!

Omedetō gozaimashita, Amane-chan. I wish you a bright and happy future ♡



18 thoughts on “Turning 3 in Japan

  1. Hi Celia,
    This a lovely post and I can understand your pleasure at being a member of the celebratory group. The pics are innocent and cute, as well as interesting to see pics taken during a Shrine ceremony. I remember arriving at the Heian Shrine in Kyoto as a similar event was breaking-up and wishing I’d arrived earlier. Yet another thing still to do haha. Have a happy and safe Christmas, whether it be white or sunny….. ho, ho, ho!


    1. Merry Christmas, John! Hope you’re having a great day with friends and family.

      Thanks, it was really a special day and I can’t help smile every time I remember little Amane running about in her kimono :)


    1. Thanks, Hien. It’s one thing I like about Japan – they have so many great traditions which are showing no signs of disappearing.
      Merry Christmas! :)


  2. These photos are lovely. Do you know why boys are celebrated at 5 and girls at 3 and 7? I tried to google but couldn’t find anything.


    1. Thank you, Emma :)
      About the ages, they had more significance back in the old days and marked different stages in growing up – 3 year old girls and boys were allowed to start growing their hair, 5 year old boys were able to start wearing hakama pants over their kimono, and 7 year old girls could start wearing an obi belt over their kimono.


  3. Thank you so much for sharing this special moment with us, and telling us about this sweet tradition. I saw so many children in traditional garments with their families in Meiji Shrine during my visit, but did not know why. It all makes sense now. Japanese kids are truly adorable, and there is nothing cuter than seeing them in kimono. My best wishes to lovely Amane. :)


    1. I’m sure the 753 children at Meiji Shrine would have been adorable! Make sure you go there for Coming-of-age Day (Jan 11 next year). Hope you’re enjoying your Christmas in Tokyo! x

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